I.
What We
Offer Each Other
II.
Getting Help
IV.
Keeping Track through the Time Bank
V.
Confidentiality - The
Keystone of All Transactions
VI.
A Few “Don’ts” When Offering Help
VII.
We Are Not An Emergency Service
VIII.
The Caring Collaborative’s Services and
Medical Information Exchange
I.
What
We Offer Each Other
As members of the Caring Collaborative we offer a network of
assistance to help each other when short-term medical problems
arise. Some of us offer practical help, such as grocery shopping,
bringing food, pet care, and picking up prescriptions. Other
examples of what our members may do for each other include: picking
you up after a medical procedure, such as a colonoscopy or
outpatient surgery; taking notes at a doctor’s appointment; bringing
you home after a hospital stay; and, offering companionship during
an illness.
In addition, some of our members who
have encountered specific medical conditions—either themselves or as
caretakers—stand ready to discuss, on a confidential basis, their
experiences in dealing with these conditions, with a member who has
received a similar diagnosis. Members share the names of health
care providers who have been helpful to them—from oncologists to
urologists, acupuncturists and home health aides.
II.
Getting
Help
For assistance
or if you want to discuss a medical problem with a member, contact
Marie Constantin, Caring Collaborative Coordinator.
Phone:
646-823-6231 Email:
marie@thetransitionnetwork.org
The Project Manager, together with
you, will estimate the time required for the task, and try to find
an appropriate member who can respond to your needs. The selected
volunteer will be given your name, email address and telephone
number. Then the volunteer will call or email you (whichever you
prefer) to discuss how she can help you—and when.
If you are requesting services, you
should be as specific as possible about the number of hours that you
will need. Similarly, if you are volunteering services, you must be
clear about your boundaries and availability. If a Caring
Collaborative assignment appears to demand more time than a
volunteer has available, she should contact the Time Bank Manager so
a team of volunteers can be assembled to share the task.
III.
Neighborhood ZIP Groups
Since it is much
easier to shop for someone, pick up a prescription, walk her dog, or
just visit, if she lives nearby, we have formed small groups of
Caring Collaborative members based on where people live, their ZIP
codes—called ZIP Groups for short.
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Belonging to a ZIP group is optional.
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ZIP Groups are open to all Caring Collaborative members.
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ZIP Group members will generally get together periodically—maybe
every few months or so— and get to know each other over time. This
will make it easier--and more comfortable--to ask for and give
help when someone needs it.
IV.
Keeping Track through the Time Bank
TTN members are
characterized by their determined independence; typically they do
not like to ask people for help. But through the give and take of a
Time Bank, members know that they will be both providers of service
and helped in time of need. Through the Time Bank, members track
hours they have both given and received.
Members are expected to e-mail the
Project Manager once the exchange of information or services has
taken place. Each hour of service provided and received will be
recorded in the Time Bank. This feedback is critical for the
success of the Caring Collaborative.
V.
Confidentiality - The Keystone of All
Transactions
Confidentiality is
critical. Participants must not discuss the medical or personal
situations of members they assist. While we expect no one to
deliberately disclose confidential or private information, our
concern is with disclosures that happen by accident. “Julie can’t
come to the meeting; she has a doctor’s appointment,” or “You should
see Julie’s collection of ceramic cows.”
VI.
A Few “Don’ts” When Offering Help
When talking about a
medical condition you have experienced, the mantra is, “I’m only an
expert on my own situation.” Your role is to relate the details of
your own experience; do not attempt to educate or guide a member
with knowledge you have acquired along the way. Even a casual
suggestion to take an aspirin can be dangerous; it could result in
internal bleeding. Further, we caution against relating horror
stories that will only add to the member’s vulnerability. So, don’t
offer medical advice and, alternatively, don’t ask for medical
advice.
Don’t help with medications. You certainly can remind the member to
take her medications, but becoming involved with dosage and timing
is potentially harmful. If this kind of help seems to be needed,
check the Caring Collaborative online
Health/Wellness Resource Directory.
Don’t provide “hands on” personal care such as bathing, bathroom
assistance, wound care or massage. If need be, you can suggest care
agencies that provide these services. Again, Check the Caring
Collaborative online
Health/Wellness Resource Directory.
VII.
We Are Not An Emergency Service
We are not a
24-hour service. Requests for help from members should be made
during regular business hours. If you are concerned about crisis
situations in the middle of the night you might want to put together
a buddy system with several of your friends or members of your peer
group who live nearby, or people who live in your building, etc. In
a medical crisis the first move, of course, should be to call 911.
VIII.
The Caring Collaborative’s Services and Medical
Information Exchange (MIX)
The following
describes services and medical information offered by members of the
Caring Collaborative. Please note that our membership is still
growing and assistance may not yet be available for all conditions
or services.